08/03/2026
A man will sl€€p with different women, and everybody in the neighborhood will know, but nobody will judg€ him when he wants to get married.
They will even say, “Thank God he is getting married. At least he will settle down.”
But when it is a woman sl€€ping with different men, people will judg€ her and even say she is not w0rthy to get married. No man should marry her.
You see the double standard?
So men are praised for getting married so they can stop moving around, but a woman who has been sl€€ping around is hindered from getting married.
This is not me supporting such behavior. This is a call for accountability.
If we don’t start judg!ng men for their behavior, we will keep having the same problem. W€ak men everywhere.
Even in marriage, when a man ch€ats, everybody will say the woman should forgive.
But when it is the woman that ch€ats, she becomes the b@d person and should leave the house.
Why is the judgm€nt different when it comes to women?
These things I just mentioned are the reason many men don’t change.
They feel they can do anything and still find their way around it.
The same judgm€nt given to women should be given to men, and we will have a better society.
I have even heard some men say, “I am a man, and I have the right to ch€at, but my wife cannot dare.”
That is the w0rst mentality, and society is encouraging it by allowing men to get away with it.
It is better we start holding men accountable so we can have more responsible brothers, fathers, and husbands.
What is bad for a woman is bad for a man abeg.
Las las, we go dey alright.
I I MOSES
